I was sharing this story today with a group of parents. I thought it would be fun to post it as well.
Last year Aidan was an “oldest child” in the same classroom that Brendan was one of the “youngest children.” One of the jobs of the oldest children is to give the younger ones lessons. Maria Montessori believed children learned through observing.
One morning Brendan poured too many Rice Crispies in his bowl. As a result he didn’t finish all of his breakfast and was going to dump the remaining cereal in the trash. (He does not like milk in his cereal) On his way to the trash can the bowl spilled and the Rice Crispies were dumped all over the hard wood kitchen floor. I shrugged it off and told him to clean up his spill.
He responded he didn’t know how. I asked him what he did at school if he didn’t know how to do something. He said he first asks a friend or older child. Then he went and got Aidan.
With a tremendous amount of patience Aidan showed Brendan where the dust pan was. Instructed him to sit beside him, and showed Brendan how to angle the pan to brush all the Rice Crispies inside. Brendan watched carefully. Soon Aidan had swept all the cereal into the pan.
He looked at Brendan and asked if he had any questions. Brendan said no. Just as I was thinking what a remarkable moment, what a perfect depiction of what we want our children to learn and how we wanted them to work together- it happened.
Aidan tipped the pan, dumped out the Rice Crispies and looked at Brendan.
“Now you do it.”
Sigh. Too good to be true.